here is the xlite logged in via cli with sip debug:
Also: qualifyy is set at no
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[Sep 7 01:28:14] Reliably Transmitting (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 103 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:14] Retransmitting #3 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 102 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:14] Retransmitting #1 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 103 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:14] Retransmitting #2 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 103 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:14] Retransmitting #3 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 103 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:15] Retransmitting #4 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 102 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:15] Really destroying SIP dialog 'Zjg2MjcyMTM4ZTJhMGYwZThmM2Q3ODY2MTdhMWVjNTM.' Method: REGISTE R
[Sep 7 01:28:15] Retransmitting #4 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 103 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:16] Retransmitting #5 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 102 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:17] Retransmitting #5 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 103 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:19] Retransmitting #6 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 102 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:20] Retransmitting #6 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
NOTIFY sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK1f1ad9ae;rport
Route: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100>
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5ba6684d
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;cpd=on>;tag=045ce871
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID: NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg.
CSeq: 103 NOTIFY
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Event: message-summary
Content-Type: application/simple-message-summary
Subscription-State: active
Content-Length: 93
Messages-Waiting: no
Message-Account: sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx
Voice-Message: 0/0 (0/0)
---
[Sep 7 01:28:23] WARNING[3764]: chan_sip.c:2015 retrans_pkt: Maximum retries exceeded on transmission NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg. for seqno 102 (Non-critical Request) -- See doc/sip-retransmit.txt.
[Sep 7 01:28:24] WARNING[3764]: chan_sip.c:2015 retrans_pkt: Maximum retries exceeded on transmission NDU2NWU1ZmY3NzQ1MjEwNGU1Mjg2NmE0NzhmYzhmNjg. for seqno 103 (Non-critical Request) -- See doc/sip-retransmit.txt.
Here is when the agent logs in: still no x -lite ring:
[Sep 7 01:31:01] == Parsing '/etc/asterisk/manager.conf': [Sep 7 01:31:01] Found
[Sep 7 01:31:01] == Manager 'sendcron' logged on from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Parsing '/etc/asterisk/manager.conf': [Sep 7 01:31:02] Found
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Manager 'sendcron' logged on from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Parsing '/etc/asterisk/manager.conf': [Sep 7 01:31:02] Found
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Manager 'sendcron' logged on from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Parsing '/etc/asterisk/manager.conf': [Sep 7 01:31:02] Found
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Manager 'sendcron' logged on from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Manager 'sendcron' logged off from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Manager 'sendcron' logged off from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Manager 'sendcron' logged off from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:02] == Manager 'sendcron' logged off from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:02] Retransmitting #4 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
INVITE sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;rinstance=fd0181fdb1d56521;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK48f9ed49;rport
From: "S1009070130598600051" <sip:0000000000@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5b06aee9
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;rinstance=fd0181fdb1d56521;cpd=on>
Contact: <sip:0000000000@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID:
2c55d3b601d73809171e79e43113c30b@66.71.249.xxx
CSeq: 102 INVITE
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Remote-Party-ID: "S1009070130598600051" <sip:0000000000@66.71.249.xxx>;privacy=off;screen=no
Date: Tue, 07 Sep 2010 05:30:59 GMT
Allow: INVITE, ACK, CANCEL, OPTIONS, BYE, REFER, SUBSCRIBE, NOTIFY, INFO
Supported: replaces
Content-Type: application/sdp
Content-Length: 263
v=0
o=root 3696 3696 IN IP4 66.71.249.xxx
s=session
c=IN IP4 66.71.249.xxx
t=0 0
m=audio 17054 RTP/AVP 0 3 101
a=rtpmap:0 PCMU/8000
a=rtpmap:3 GSM/8000
a=rtpmap:101 telephone-event/8000
a=fmtp:101 0-16
a=silenceSupp:off - - - -
a=ptime:20
a=sendrecv
---
[Sep 7 01:31:05] Retransmitting #5 (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
INVITE sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;rinstance=fd0181fdb1d56521;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK48f9ed49;rport
From: "S1009070130598600051" <sip:0000000000@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as5b06aee9
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;rinstance=fd0181fdb1d56521;cpd=on>
Contact: <sip:0000000000@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID:
2c55d3b601d73809171e79e43113c30b@66.71.249.xxx
CSeq: 102 INVITE
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Remote-Party-ID: "S1009070130598600051" <sip:0000000000@66.71.249.xxx>;privacy=off;screen=no
Date: Tue, 07 Sep 2010 05:30:59 GMT
Allow: INVITE, ACK, CANCEL, OPTIONS, BYE, REFER, SUBSCRIBE, NOTIFY, INFO
Supported: replaces
Content-Type: application/sdp
Content-Length: 263
v=0
o=root 3696 3696 IN IP4 66.71.249.xxx
s=session
c=IN IP4 66.71.249.xxx
t=0 0
m=audio 17054 RTP/AVP 0 3 101
a=rtpmap:0 PCMU/8000
a=rtpmap:3 GSM/8000
a=rtpmap:101 telephone-event/8000
a=fmtp:101 0-16
a=silenceSupp:off - - - -
a=ptime:20
a=sendrecv
---
[Sep 7 01:31:07] == Parsing '/etc/asterisk/manager.conf': [Sep 7 01:31:07] Found
[Sep 7 01:31:07] == Manager 'sendcron' logged on from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:07] == Parsing '/etc/asterisk/manager.conf': [Sep 7 01:31:07] Found
[Sep 7 01:31:07] == Manager 'sendcron' logged on from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:07] == Manager 'sendcron' logged off from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:07] == Manager 'sendcron' logged off from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:07] NOTICE[3764]: chan_sip.c:3115 auto_congest: Auto-congesting SIP/201-00000006
[Sep 7 01:31:07] > Channel SIP/201-00000006 was never answered.
[Sep 7 01:31:07] Scheduling destruction of SIP dialog
'2c55d3b601d73809171e79e43113c30b@66.71.249.xxx' in 10752 ms (Method: INVITE)
[Sep 7 01:31:09] == Manager 'sendcron' logged off from 127.0.0.1
[Sep 7 01:31:12]
<--- SIP read from 71.203.248.167:12100 --->
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[Sep 7 01:31:13] Reliably Transmitting (NAT) to 71.203.248.167:12100:
OPTIONS sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;rinstance=fd0181fdb1d56521;cpd=on SIP/2.0
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK33caa1e3;rport
From: "asterisk" <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as2686b562
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;rinstance=fd0181fdb1d56521;cpd=on>
Contact: <sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>
Call-ID:
5179fac90984ddd32de8db296919ffdd@66.71.249.xxx
CSeq: 102 OPTIONS
User-Agent: Asterisk PBX
Max-Forwards: 70
Date: Tue, 07 Sep 2010 05:31:13 GMT
Allow: INVITE, ACK, CANCEL, OPTIONS, BYE, REFER, SUBSCRIBE, NOTIFY, INFO
Supported: replaces
Content-Length: 0
---
[Sep 7 01:31:13]
<--- SIP read from 71.203.248.167:12100 --->
SIP/2.0 200 OK
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 66.71.249.xxx:5060;branch=z9hG4bK33caa1e3;rport=5060
Contact: <sip:192.168.1.9:12100>
To: <sip:201@71.203.248.167:12100;rinstance=fd0181fdb1d56521;cpd=on>;tag=65000032
From: "asterisk"<sip:asterisk@66.71.249.xxx>;tag=as2686b562
Call-ID:
5179fac90984ddd32de8db296919ffdd@66.71.249.xxx
CSeq: 102 OPTIONS
Accept: application/sdp
Accept-Language: en
Allow: INVITE, ACK, CANCEL, OPTIONS, BYE, REFER, NOTIFY, MESSAGE, SUBSCRIBE, INFO
User-Agent: X-Lite release 1104o stamp 56125
Content-Length: 0
<------------->
[Sep 7 01:31:13] --- (12 headers 0 lines) ---
[Sep 7 01:31:13] Really destroying SIP dialog
'5179fac90984ddd32de8db296919ffdd@66.71.249.xxx' Method: OPTIONS